The moment you realise that the person you cared for has nothing intellectually or spiritually to offer you, but a headache. The moment you realise God had greater plans for you that don’t involve crying at night. The moment you live your dreams, not because of what it will prove or get you, but because that is all you want to do. People’s opinions don’t matter. The moment you realise that no one is your enemy, except yourself. The moment you realise that you can have everything you want in life. However, it takes timing, the right heart, the right actions, the right passion and a willingness to risk it all. If it is not yours, it is because you really didn't want it, need it or something greater than yourself prevented it. The moment you realise that happiness was never about getting a person. They are only a helpmate towards achieving your life mission. The moment you believe that love is not about losing or winning. It is just a few moments in time, followed by an eternity of situations to grow from. The moment you realise that you were always the right person. That moment? That moment is now.