Know my love infinite...

Suppose you get a feeling to punch someone. If you act on it, a war breaks out with that person. If you resist the feeling, a war breaks out with yourself within your head. That is even worse. Accept all your feelings no matter how wrong they seem to you. Drink them in their original flavour. But act on them only and only if you want that person in the story of your life as a villain or hero. So when your opponent strikes you on your cheek, you strike her in the heart by your amazing spiritual audacity in turning the other cheek. You wrest the offensive from her by refusing to take his weapons, by keeping your own, and by striking her in his conscience from a higher level. She hits you physically, and you hit her spiritually.