The days will always be brighter because she existed. The nights will always be darker because she's gone. And no matter what anybody says about grief and about time healing all wounds, the truth is: there are certain sorrows that never fade away until the heart stops beating and the last breath is taken. Bottom line; even if you see them coming, you're not ready for the big moments. No one asks for their life to change, not really. But it does. The big moments are gonna come and they'll keep on coming. You can't help that. It's what you do after that counts, that's when you find out who you are and what kind of a life you're capable of leading...
I'd rather be a could-be if I cannot be an are;
because a could-be is a maybe, who is reaching for a star.
I'd rather be a has-been than a might-have-been, by far;
for a might have-been has never been, but a has, was once an are...