I have found that in fact, we live three lives. The first one ends with the loss of naivety, the second, with the loss of innocence and the third with the loss of life itself. It’s inevitable that we go through all three stages, though they might differ in their impact. Something to remember is that the big things and the little things don't follow the same rules. We won't be able to change the grand scheme of things, but the details. We change a grain of sand, and with that, the whole world. It's a hard truth to accept, and so some people wander around their whole lives looking for a way out of the labyrinth, but there's only one path and it leads you ever deeper.