Friday, September 25, 2009

The breakdown...

Grief may be a thing we all have in common, but it looks different on everyone. It isn't just death we have to grieve. It's life. It's loss. It's change. And when we wonder why it has to suck so much sometimes, why it hurts so bad, the thing to remember is that it can all turn around just like that, because that's how you stay alive. When it hurts so much you can't breathe. That's how you survive...

Grief comes in its own time for everyone. In its own way. So the best thing we can do, the best anyone can do, is try to be honest and let yourself feel it when it comes and let it go when you can...

The very worst part is that the minute you think you've passed it. It comes all over again. And always, everytime, it takes your breath away...