Every now and then, something awful happens to each and every one of us. The difference between us though, is that some try to make it seem like their suffering is so much greater than that of others. I guess they think being a victim makes them special. But the thing about people like that, is that most can spot a fake from a mile away, especially those who know the true meaning of pain...
The nature of tragedy causes us to ask ourselves: what if? What if she hadn't died? What if I had chosen differently? What if I didn't make that mistake? What if I didn't let her fall? The problem with all these if questions, is that they'll always remain just that - if's. The best way to honour those who have passed away is to focus on what was and to keep on living the best way we know how...
You know what's the easiest way to spot a fake? Someone who was profoundly hurt would never let their guard down in a room full of crowded people, but you know who would? An attention seeker, who has nothing else to clinge to, but that last bit of hope, that someone actually gives a crap...
